The posts that I missed writing when I graduated college in May 2022 were the end of semester reflection posts. These posts gave me an avenue to look back on the semester, see the gems I had, celebrate the wins I experienced, and mourn the losses I had. So itβs been a pleasant surprise to find that I have two left to share with you (unless I decide to go to seminary).
These are some lessons learned in my fall semester of grad school. But not just any grad school, journalism school!
J-School made me aggressive



We are starting off strong! I would never be someone that anyone would call aggressive, but after a semester of j-school, I really learned how to take charge and go after what I want. In order to hear from sources and get the information you need, you have to push past the fear of being annoying or rude and get what you need. And this doesnβt mean intentionally being rude, but being quicker to ask for what you want repeatedly. I also want to say that if someone doesnβt want to speak to me, thatβs okay. But itβs going after the people who do want to speak to me and not stopping with the bare minimum response.
I got to KNOW NYC




Iβve been a born-and-raised New Yorker, which is not the norm if you live here. There are A MILLION places Iβve never been until I started this program. I learned about different neighborhoods in the North Bronx. I know the end of the 2 line. I have been on the 1, 2, 3, 7, A, B, C, D, G, N, R, and Q trains. Some of these trains I had never been on before this program. Iβve navigated the train system AND know how to hop on the bus to a totally new-to-me part of town. This city actually is huge. Iβve spent two hours traveling to get to a community board meeting, and itβs WILD to me that this is all considered one city. NYC is so huge and thereβs so much to discover. I feel even more like a real New Yorker now.
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Dreams do change



In the second half of the semester, I started audio. After 7 weeks of doing it, despite my amazing, lovely professors, I donβt want to do audio. Audio reporting is way different than podcasting and that was a huge thing I learned. I love a good podcast, where you can sit down with a guest and chat away, but live radio stressed me out. Reporting in audio stresses me out. Unfortunately for me, my Masterβs project is audio. I used to think I wanted to do audio. Now I just want a job that wonβt stress me out and one I donβt have to take home come 5pm.
A homily can stay with you




A lovely, unexpected part of grad school was the Community at the Crossing, a group at the nearby cathedral. The group is ecumenical and they all live in the house next to the cathedral, where Madeleine LβEngle wrote A Wrinkle in Time. I first met Allie after 12:15 midday prayer. Then after showing up to the cathedral to briefly see the art exhibition that was displayed, I met Noah. He and I have such similar faith/life stories, and that conversation was a joy! And Iβve met other members since, which is awesome. But at 12:25, Mondays through Fridays, we show up at midday prayer. (I try to go once a week, but that got harder after October.)
Two homilies I remember: We know so much yet we miss what is essential, whatβs right in front of us. (If that doesnβt pierce your heart, I wonder what will?) On the feast of St. Francis, a different priest mentioned how saints illuminated different aspects of Jesus. So what aspect of Jesus is illuminated in your life? A question Iβm still unable to answer.
You can learn a lot very quickly but youβre always moving on



What I found fun about journalism was all the random things I was learning about. I learned about housing in Riverdale in the Bronx. I got to know the parks department in NYC. There were community boards and CitiBikes and churches during COVID and how a small Episcopal church worked. Though I love acquiring knowledge quickly, I never got to settle into something. Every time I was just getting deeper, I had to move on to the next topic. I never felt like I got to enjoy a story I worked on or celebrated finishing an audio piece. The pace moved too quickly for my liking.
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The right friends can get you through a tough season



Without the right people, journalism school wouldβve felt absolutely impossible. I was so darn lucky that one of my classmates decided to start a Bible Study that met weekly. We were able to talk about our struggles and cry and relate it back to scripture. These are the girls I texted, the girls who I did work with, the girls who joined me reporting. I can honestly say that without them, my mental health wouldβve taken a turn for the worst. Shout out to Zee for all the reporting trips! Shout out to Kate for keeping me laughing everywhere we go!!
Iβm glad grad school semester 1 is over! And the next Iβm graduating! It has felt very slow at times, and most weeks get harder instead of easier, but Iβm proud Iβve been able to accomplish so much!
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Signing off,
Gigi
So much can be learned at college; some of it is in the classroom. π
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Yes! I’m definitely learning that it’s not 100% for me, but hopefully journalism will open the door to new opportunities.
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